24EN Editor's Note:If you're spending time with people who don't support your dreams and goals, it's seriously time to look at whom you call your friends, and start networking to up-level your circle of influence.

如果你依旧和不支持你的梦想和目标的人相处,你现在就必须开始认真思考你的朋友到底是谁,并开始结交可以提升及影响你的圈子

- article written by Sam Chillingworth, translated by Molly Cha


It's important to acknowledge the power of a positive attitude. This goes not only for yourself, but also for the people you surround yourself with.
我们必须承认积极的态度是非常重要的,它的重要性不但指的是对你自己本身,而且也针对相处在你周围的人

Attitudes are catchy. Whether they're positive or negative, they're rubbing off on you. If you're around people who complain, judge, spread negative gossip, blame others, and play victim roles, chances are you do, too.
态度是很容易形成的。无论态度本身是积极还是消极,他们都在你身上慢慢形成。如果你经常参与爱投诉,批评,散播是非,埋怨别人和爱把食指指向别人的话,你很大可能也是其中一位。

Who are you around most? Are they achieving their dreams or complaining about their circumstances? Do they look up to others who are go-getters and high achievers, or do they make fun of them? How do they treat you?
谁经常和你相处在一块?他们是不是正在达成自己的梦想,还是在抱怨他们所遭遇的一切呢?他们是不是喜欢向成功者学习向上,又或者是经常嘲笑他们呢?他们又怎样对待你呢?

If you're spending time with people who don't support your dreams and goals, it's seriously time to look at whom you call your friends, and start networking to up-level your circle of influence.

如果,你正花时间和不支持你的梦想,你的目标的人在一起,现在开始你就必须认真思考你来往的朋友到底是谁,并开始结交可以提升及影响你的朋友圈子。

Successful people surround themselves with successful people, plain and simple. They want to be around others who are achieving goals and making things happen. They want to know their secrets and strategies for winning. They're not embarrassed to be hanging out with people who are studying for success and making good money.

成功者与成功人士相处,就是这么简单。他们要结交达到目标和让事情发生的人。他们要知道他们成功的秘诀和策略。他们不害怕和学习成功,学会赚钱的人来往。

You, too, need to surround yourself with positive influences. Join the clubs that other successful people are in, learn what they're learning. It doesn't matter from what walk of life you are coming from. Show up and transform yourself into an achiever! Success isn't just for those who have had it easy, who came from supportive homes or had expensive educations. There are so many successful people who rose up from very poor conditions and overcame obstacles to achieve the goals they set their sights on.

你也应该让自己身处在正面影响的环境下。参与团体,参与成功者参与的团体并学习他们所学习的。无论你现在站着的起跑点在哪里,你必须现身,然后将自己改造成一位成功者!成功来得并非容易,成功不是因你有个支持你的家或者是高昂的教育而存在的。

But they didn't get there by hanging out with negative energy-drainers!

可是,成功将不会降临,假设你和消极,负面的家伙混在一起的话!

Have you been limiting your success by letting yourself become influenced by other people's negative energy?

你可曾何时因为被别人的负面能量而影响,从而限制自己迈向成功呢?

Make a list of all the people you spend time with and make a note of the kind of personality they have. How many negative people are you around every day? How many people on your list are achieving their dreams, supporting yours and taking responsibility for their lives? You're better off spending time alone than with people who hold themselves back with a victim mentality.

将你把时间花在他们身上的人全部写下来,并注明他们特有的性格和个性。你每一天和多少个负面思想的人同处呢?你从名单内又有多少个人正在达成自己的梦想,支持你的梦想及对他们的生活负责的呢?我劝你还是一个人独处吧,如果你和那位抱着受害者思想的人共处。

Simply stop spending time with the negative people on your list. Join the clubs that will put you in with a positive circle of friends. Set a new standard for yourself and don't become friends with people who fall below that standard. Invite your old friends to come with you and you'll know who has potential and who to stop being around entirely.

就是不要和你名单内消极的人在一起!参加能将你放在积极圈子的社团,团体。将你自己的位子重新定位,并开始停止和那位置水平以下的人做朋友。邀请你的朋友们和你一起,之后你就会发现谁富有潜质,而谁又会完全不想参与其内的了。

You have to take responsibility for this area of your life. Look around you at the people you call friends. Does it make you proud? Are you selling yourself short? Or are you on the right track?

你必须为自己的人生负责!看看你称之为朋友的人,你觉得光荣吗?你是不是把自己给贬低了呢?你是不是不在正确的轨道上?

Starting TODAY ... make a conscious effort to surround yourself with positive, nourishing, and uplifting people - people who believe in you, encourage you to go after your dreams, and applaud your victories. Surround yourself with possibility thinkers, idealist, an visionaries!

 从今天开始,你要很有意志的选择朋友,让自己和积极,上进和会提升的人群里- 那些相信你,支持你迈向梦想,庆祝你的胜利的人。你们一起正面思考,一起把事情理想化,一起幻想!

p.s. Your salary is the average of the five people you mix with. If you can't get what you want, change friends! Mix around with people that have the same vision like you. Dare to dream, dare to succeed! Be Blessed!

你的薪资是你来往的那5个人的平均薪资。如果你得不到你要的朋友,换朋友!和拥有共同梦想的人做朋友吧!勇敢梦想,勇敢迈向成功!祝福你!