Nothing gets people agreeing with the suggestion that you must spare no effort to understand others and then you will be understood. Actually, were there no understanding between each other, we would never have the chance to set and maintain our close relationships.
I am in favor of the idea that if you want to make connection with someone, the first thing you must do is to show your urge of understanding him. Here are some reasons why understanding others is vital. First and foremost, that we have the ability to generate and share our opinions is the unique characteristic of human beings, which is particularly different from animals. Thus, it is imperative for us to have someone who can know what we mean. This is where a new relationship starts. Besides, by understanding others, you are able to gain not only communicating experience but also creative ideas which can make it easier to deal with difficult situations later. Last but not the least, if you know what others think, they will try to understand your thoughts in return so as to share ideas with you and eventually cooperate with you.
Understanding others being so crucial, we are expected to start it now. The first step is to ask our families as well as friends about their opinion.
understood了解; 懂，理解( understand的过去式和过去分词 )
opinions舆论; 意见( opinion的名词复数 )
human beings人类( human being的名词复数 )
characteristic特有的; 独特的; 表示特性的
families家族; 家( family的名词复数 )
first step第一级; 初步
First and foremost首要的; 第一